HAPPINESS

 


Everybody wants to be happy, but the real question is, where does happiness come from?

 

Most people think happiness comes from making plenty money, gaining political power and having control over things. But you soon discover that those things are far from contributing to your happiness and even can make you unhappy, especially if you are over obsessed with the acquisition of those material things. Then you discover that real happiness comes off centeredness of other things like caring for other people, doing things to help other people succeed in life, impacting the lives of others.

 

There is the saying that happiness cannot be pursued, it must ensue, through our acts of kindness, act of generosity, it expands your being. Once our being is expanded, you feel good, you feel happier, but when you are self-centered, you contract into yourself your ego and self- centeredness eats you up, you become unhappy internally, but your outward look may exhume happiness. Eventually, people get to realize that contributing to happiness of others brings happiness to them from their life experience.

 

True happiness is within.


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