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  Have you ever seen a hen sit on an egg for 21 days? I promise you , it is one of the most powerful pictures of purpose you will ever see. No noise, no movement, no applause, just heat, pressure, and faith. From the outside, nothing looks like it's changing . But inside that shell, destiny is forming. Organs, bones, identity, purpose. And here's the thing, if you crack an egg too early, you kill what it could have become . Because potential needs time, not proof. Potential needs pressure, not popularity. What's really crazy about this process is that the hen can't see what is going on inside the egg .   No ultrasound, no feedback, no sign of life. But she sits, day after day after day. Why? Because she knows that as long as she stays faithful to the assignment, the egg will hatch. Isn't that true about purpose? You don't always see progress, but something is forming deep inside the shell. From the outside, it looks like nothing is happening. Let me say...

  GARETH BALE: “In football, there was a moment that changed my view of competition. While I was struggling with a chronic muscle injury that kept haunting me throughout my career, I received an unexpected message from Real Madrid’s fitness coach. He said, ‘Leo is asking about your condition and wants to help you.’ “What happened next? A personal call from Messi’s personal doctor, offering me a proven treatment protocol, sharing rehab exercises that Messi himself used in 2013. A recommendation for a specialized clinic in Barcelona that treats many players from the football world, where competition is fierce. This situation taught me that true professionalism transcends teams and colors, and greatness is measured by what you offer to others—even your opponents. Messi is a human being before he is a legend. At a time when many see the rivalry between Real Madrid and Barcelona as a war, Messi reminded us that football is a beautiful game! So...

  This law explains how you can get paid multiple more for the skills you already have, and how all the value comes from the context , not the skill itself. Four ending lessons about the value of any skill sets: 1.        Our skills hold no intrinsic value – our skills are worth nothing ; value is what someone is willing to pay. 2.       The Value of any skill is determined by the context in which it is required . Every skill holds a different value in a different sector. 3.       The perception of a skill’s rarity influences how much people value it . 4.       People will assess the worth of your skill based on how much value they believe it can generate for them. A common misconception is that people feel the only avenue for securing a pay increase is either via promotion in one’s current position or job place, or to seek a similar role within the same industr...

  Six pieces of financial advice by Warren Buffett .   1.     Money isn't earned by working , it's earned by thinking . 2.     The rich educate themselves while the poor entertain themselves . 3.     If you don't work on your dreams , you'll always work on someone else's dreams . 4.     If you don't have time to open a book , you'll have even less time to start a business. 5.     The most powerful asset is our mind Well trained , it can create an enormous fortune . 6.     If you can't control your emotions , you won't be able to control your money .  

  As  Theodore Roosevelt , the former American President said, “ The most important single ingredient in the formulae of success is knowing how to get along with people”.   Julian Craig  also points out, “ No matter how much work you can do, no matter how engaging your personality may be, you will not advance far in life/business or any endeavour if you cannot work through others ”.  This virtue requires you to see the value in others.  One of the best stories I ever read that illustrated this point was told by a Nurse.   ‘During second year of Nursing School, our Professor gave us a quiz.  I breezed through the questions until I read the last one:  What is the name of the woman who cleans the school?  Surely, this was a joke, I thought.  I had seen the cleaning woman several times, but how would I know her name?  I handed in my paper, leaving the last questions blank .  Before the class ended, one student asked if...

  The Book is about the strategic importance of appealing to people’s hearts in order to persuade others to support your vision, dream or cause, through story telling. Non ‘stories’ may provide information, but stories have a unique power to move people’s hearts, minds, feet, and wallets, in the story teller’s intended direction. For example, in film making, if you miss the audience’s hearts, the only wallet that gets hit will be your own. That is because the heart is always the first target in storytelling . If one is pursuing a cause that will improve the life of others, for instance, providing clean water for kids in Somalia, and one tells a story of how kids in this area die from lack of clean water and such film is viewed by an audience of businessmen, it’s most likely going to appeal to their hearts, and then the cheques of donors can start rolling out. To succeed, you have to persuade others to support your vision, dream or cause . Whether you want to motivate yo...

  Extraordinary people survive under the most terrible circumstances and then become more extraordinary because of it. Most of the time, we don’t choose our adversity, but all the time we can choose our response to it .   If we respond positively to difficulties, the outcome will be potentially positive.  If we respond negatively to our difficulties, the outcome will be potentially negative. There’s a story about a young woman who complained to her father about her life and how hard things were for her.  The adversity of life was overwhelming her, and she wanted to give up. As she listened, her father filled three pots with water and brought them to boil on the stove.  Into the first he put carrots slices, into the second he put eggs, and into the third he put ground coffee beans.  He let them simmer for a few minutes and then placed the carrots, eggs, and coffee before her in three containers.  “What do you see?” he a...